
So it’s bounds to happen at some point. You start of super keen, you hit your stride and then something happens and it suddenly feels hard.
It may be marathon training, it may be healthier eating, it may be good habits such as no screen time before bed.
I’ve been listening to a few podcasts about how to stay motivated and have learnt a few things worth sharing ( I hope).
You may be like me and prone to procrastination. That’s one reason I decided to write a daily blog – to establish a routine and a writing habit otherwise it was always ‘manana’ in respect of capturing my thoughts.
Now procrastination is a physical and mental response to how we deal with feelings and things that make us uncomfortable. So we shy away and delay. For me it’s money management, it’s dealing with family relationships.
It’s a bit of a cliche but I’ve also learnt that ‘leaning into your fears’ is hard but is the way to go. I’ve also learnt that those fears, that irrational anxiety rarely materialises as a thing. Look back and those things you feared never happened.
I’ve also learnt there are two main types of motivation.
Extrinsic motivation is driven by a desire to be valued, rewarded and recognised. When it comes to running for me it is about the bling, it is about PBs, it is about being hired as a Coach.
Extrinsic motivation does work. It does drive you. It does make you go for a run at 5am, in the dark and in the cold. And at the end of that race it all feels good. But extrinsic motivation can also have a limit because it is tied to outcomes.
I worked my socks off for nearly 18 months to go ‘sub4 ‘ at a marathon, and once that was achieved my motivation to train dropped significantly. Setting a new target of 3 hours 50 minutes wasn’t enough and throughout 2022 the motivation wasn’t deep enough, wasn’t hard enough to keep me interested. Yes I trained but something was missing.
This got me into thinking about the other form of motivation, which is called Intrinsic. Intrinsic motivation is different because it comes from within, from gaining personal satisfaction for doing your thing, and not requiring that reward as an outcome.
I’m not so good at intrinsic motivation. I think because my health journey was motivated by an outcome – losing weight or running faster.
But I’m trying to embrace this different form of motivation. Running (and training) because it gets me outside, because it helps me clear my head, because I’m in nature. And if I’m consistent and don’t put pressure on each and every run then the outcomes will take care of themselves ( I hope) .
So next time your motivation wanes ( and it will at some point) stop and think about your why? It may be uncomfortable to see yourself as that person chasing ‘outcomes’ but if you can balance that with a different purpose then the malaise won’t last long. If you do something just for the enjoyment we are hard wired to chase that pleasure and you will.
Sorry for the long post.
Cool Runnings
Coach Al
